Section 1.1: Building Confidence

A common concern I hear from men is the struggle to develop confidence. Many feel that they lack the innate ability or a straightforward approach to boost their self-assurance.

I have a straightforward 30-day challenge that can help you tremendously: engage in conversation with every woman you encounter.

You might think, "That's not something I'm comfortable doing." But let's clarify: your hesitation doesn't stem from a fear of talking to women. Instead, it arises from unfamiliarity with feminine energy. You tend to focus only on those women you find attractive, which limits your practice.

When I say interact with every woman, I mean everyone—your barista, co-worker, or receptionist. Engaging in casual conversations with all women allows you to become more comfortable, easing your nerves and showcasing your authentic self. Ultimately, this helps make women more open to engaging with you.

Section 1.2: Mastering the Art of Communication

I've had friends approach me, seeking advice on how to respond to a girl's text. My suggestion? Send a blank message.

Yes, you read that right—a blank screen. Many men get overly excited about new interactions and aim to keep the conversation flowing. But sometimes, it's essential to take a step back.

Consider this: if you've been chatting with a girl and she suddenly stops replying, it can lead you to think about her even more. This principle applies to women as well. Creating an air of mystery and curiosity can be more intriguing than trying to maintain constant communication.

Remember, the goal of texting isn't to chat endlessly; it's to arrange face-to-face meetings as efficiently as possible. Focus on setting up that date instead of getting caught up in playful banter.

Section 2.1: Cultivating Mystery

Here’s a point that might surprise you: take your time before expressing your feelings to a woman. I'm not suggesting you become emotionally unavailable. Rather, it's about pacing yourself.

Too often, I see men quickly showering women with compliments and future plans after just a couple of dates. Slow down.

Keep your feelings to yourself until she shares hers first. Women are often drawn to mysteries; they enjoy the process of unraveling a story. If they can easily read you, their interest might diminish swiftly.

Section 2.2: Embracing Independence

Now, this final point may seem counterproductive to your goals. Have you ever found yourself in a complicated or frustrating situation with a woman? If her interest seems to wane, consider walking away.

This action can be intimidating for many men, yet it can be incredibly appealing to women. It might seem illogical, but walking away can be one of the most effective strategies for success.

First, you need to respect yourself and know what truly benefits you, allowing you to detach from unfulfilling interactions. Secondly, use any time spent feeling “stuck” to explore new possibilities. Finally, recognize that being overly available or desperate for companionship is often unattractive.

Walking away conveys confidence and self-worth—qualities that are undeniably appealing. Trust me, those who leave will often regret their decision later.

In conclusion, I encourage you to try these approaches if you find yourself struggling in the dating world.

Always remember, you are valuable. Shift your mindset from seeking women to considering what they must do to earn the privilege of being with you. Stand tall, lift your head, and exude confidence.

If you found these insights helpful, consider checking out my free guide on avoiding dating pitfalls.

Or, if you have questions or stories to share, connect with me on Instagram for a complimentary coaching session.